When I first started trying to meet women, I did what every other desperate and clueless guy does. I got myself cleaned up, and headed out onto the bar and nightclub scene. I attended more “Ladies Nights” than I can count, all in the hopes of getting myself a date. What I didn't realize then was that those were probably the worst places in the world I could have gone for the purposes of meeting women.

The fact is, women just don't go to bars and clubs looking to meet men. They know single, desperate guys will be there, but they're just not interested. When women aren't interested, they aren't responsive. Those pickup artist techniques you got out of a book won't do you any good if women won't even talk to you. Women tend to turn down guys they meet in bar and club situations, just because they don't want to be bothered when they're out with friends. Guys wind up wasting their entire evenings trying to convince these women just to give them the time of day. You have better things to do than stand around begging for a little attention!

In many other situations, women don't have the same mental block against talking to men. Out in the light of day, she doesn't have to worry that you're some drunken loser just trying to get her to go home with him. When you break away from those tense nightclub situations, something incredible happens: women actually talk to you. In most cases, they're much more responsive to talking and exchanging contact information. Meeting women really doesn't have to be as difficult as we guys tend to make it on ourselves.

My dating training software “Instant Street Dating” tells men everything they need to do to successfully approach a woman. This means striking up a conversation with the cutie behind you in the checkout line, or saying hello to the pretty barista who serves your morning coffee. In addition to teaching you the techniques required for meeting women, “Instant Street Dating” will also show you how to pinpoint and go after the women you're most attracted to. The next time you pass a beautiful stranger on the street, you'll know just what to say to get her number. Stop torturing yourself with night after night at bars and clubs, and put yourself in front of women who actually want to talk to you instead.