OK, so let's end with a bang You can get all the benefit of one of these events without the cost or having to go through the brutal experience of so many quick fire dates. Speed dating brings together a large number of women who are looking for men into one place and normally on a quiet night Once you know where the events are and when they are you will be able to show up after they have just finished in many bars or hang out in the lunges nearby to talk to them on the breaks. If you see everyone leaving then you can approach the women right after the event. And you have the easy opener of "How was the event?" How is that for finding women to approach? Remember don't let on that this is what you are doing and be sure to chide them for going... but wasn't it great that you happened to be there on the same night?